Should I feel that women are shallow for the most part when I was heavier? I remember when I was super buff in mid 30s and had to shake them off with a stick…then I gained weight and not one would look my way..Now I am losing it (FOR MYSELF) and their heads are starting to turn again…WELL?
Exactly how many fat women have you gone after??? Hmmmm???
Fat isn’t attractive or healthy…a person might be a wonderful human being, but if you aren’t physically attracted to them, intimacy is going to be a problem…
I’ve been obese…it didn’t hurt my feelings that men weren’t attracted to me (very few were) because I was not attractive…
Of course people are going to "notice" someone they find visually appealing…unless you’ve got zero issues with heavy women, you’ve got no argument here…if you don’t mind fat women, then seek out some of those to date, as they may have been more likely to date you when you were fat (although when I was fat, fat men weren’t appealing then either)…